If you do not like the situation you are in, change it. This is usually easier said then done. You need to do the things you must in life and these are usually not always fun. This is also not a problem when you keep doing the things you like to do, as these are priorities for your wellbeing too. When motivation for things you must gets drained, you need to make choices. Sometimes you mess you so bad that you know you need to make the change for the better. Reflect, recharge and if you aim to do it better, or different, you always have that choice.